They say the eyes are the windows to the soul and can reveal your true feelings about others. Do you believe it? Is it really possible that the eyes become a portal and show what you feel about someone? Have you ever wondered why your eye pupils contract or dilate? Have you ever heard of dilated pupil attraction? You may definitely have several questions but you may be surprised to know the answers.
Are Dilated Pupils an Attraction Sign?
Yes, dilated pupils are a sign of attraction.
It is true that your pupils contract and dilate when they are exposed to light, and this mechanism helps you see better in different light conditions. Does this mean dilated pupil attraction is a myth? Of course not. The truth is that your pupils also dilate or contract when you see something that you like or do not like. Your eye pupils dilate when you like something and feel excited to see it. Quite interestingly, your pupils may dilate up to three times their size when you see someone who is physically very attractive. This dilation occurs involuntarily and you can do nothing to control your pupils when making the eye contact. The interesting thing is that when your pupils dilate and express your arousal, they also trigger an automatic arousal in the other person as well.
Are We Attracted to Dilated Pupils?
Yes, it tells a lot about dilated pupils’ attraction. Larger and dilated pupils are considered more attractive than smaller ones. When you see someone with pupils dilated, you are more likely to think them attractive.
Studies confirmed that men find big eye pupils more attractive, but it is a bit different for women who tend to like medium or big sized pupils. Women usually associate bigger pupils with "bad boy" types of guys. It is due to this particular reason that many advertising companies enlarge the pupils of models when they publish their pictures on magazines to tempt women.
The dilated pupils' attraction may help to explain why couples are more likely to feel romantic when they sit in dim lights. These lights automatically dilate your pupils as well as your partner's to make both of you look attractive and interested in each other.